Kids and Depression: How have we come to this?

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By the time kids come to see me in the ER with depression, things are usually pretty bad.   Yet, I see it all the time, just about every shift I work.  Sometimes it’s after an intentional drug overdose, other times when they are caught holding a gun to their head.  Twice in the past year [...]

Keeping Your Child Safe: 6 Things MomDocs Know That You Should Too

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     Last summer on the way home from the beach, the SUV I bought to keep my kids safe had warning lights showing on the dashboard just as we were about to make the day-long drive home. Here I was, far from home and alone with the kids and my trusty vehicle was acting [...]

“Are You Done Yet?” In Defense of our 5th Child

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This week my husband and I announced our big news: we’re expecting our 5th child in September.  “Really?”  is the most common reply.  Here are some of the other zingers we have heard: “Do you hate money?” “Are you done now?” “Are you crazy?” “Was this planned?” “Don’t you know there are things you can [...]

Is my baby taking enough naps?

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I read countless books on sleep before my son was born.  I was hoping to head off sleep problems by starting on the right track.  Everything started out according to plan.  Most of the books recommended a common schedule: 1) Eat (usually first 30 minutes of cycle) 2) Play (30 min to 1 ½ hours) [...]

18 Reasons Why Doctors and Lawyers Homeschool Their Children

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I’m going public today with a secret I’ve kept for a year—my husband and I are homeschooling our children.  I never dreamed we would become homeschoolers.  I wanted my kids integrated and socialized.  I wanted their eyes opened to the realities of the world.  I wanted the values we taught at home put to the [...]

How do you clear a baby’s nose?

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Did you know that babies sneeze to clear their noses?  I think that’s just cool.  It’s also cute – to a point.  As they get bigger, this mechanism for shooting snot out becomes more frightening than cute.  And when there is more snot than a sneeze can handle, it’s stressful and scary. What do you [...]

Why do girls wear thong underwear?

There is something absurd about a pre-pubertal girl wearing thong underwear—but I see it all the time.  After almost ten years of practice as a pediatrician, I’ve witnessed a decade of kids’ underwear trends and styles.  Sexy underwear are appearing on younger and younger girls, from Victoria’s secret satin, to thong, to fluorescent string bikinis.   [...]

When should I go to Urgent Care?

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It’s 5 pm on a Thursday when your 5 year old is crying and saying her ear hurts, and she has a temperature of 100.0.  Do you: a) go to Urgent Care now and get this ear infection taken care of so that she can go to school in the morning? b) call your pediatrician’s [...]

The Truth about Tanning

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If you’ve ever used a tanning bed – even once – you have a 75% increased risk of melanoma.  And if you’ve been a tanning salon regular, you have up to a 400% increased risk of melanoma, according to Brundha Balaraman, MD, a dermatologist at Washington University in St. Louis.  Dr. Balaraman sees the tragic [...]

Depression: It may not just be the “blues”

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On the morning of Valentine’s Day, as I drove off from dropping my teenage daughter at school, I knew that the evening would be filled with stories of all the fun she’d at school, the little snippets of “he said, she said!” As I was thinking of how much fun the teenage years could be, [...]