It’s 5 pm on a Thursday when your 5 year old is crying and saying her ear hurts, and she has a temperature of 100.0.  Do you:

a) go to Urgent Care now and get this ear infection taken care of so that she can go to school in the morning?

b) call your pediatrician’s exchange?

c) give her Tylenol and call your pediatrician in the morning?

Almost every mom I know would go to urgent care.  So the co-pay is a bit more, but it’s better than UrgentCareletting her wake up with pain in the night and then missing school and work in the morning to go to the pediatrician’s office.   But what happens when she has an allergic reaction to her antibiotic?  Or if her fever continues to rise?  Do you:

a) go back to urgent care?

b) go to the emergency room?

c) call your pediatrician?

Every day I hear parents say things like, “We don’t have a pediatrician, we just use urgent care.  We had a pediatrician when our kids were little and needed shots, but we haven’t been back there in years.”

The convenience of 24-7 healthcare is starting to take over the idea of a “medical home,” a primary care physician that knows you and cares about you and has an invested personal relationship with you.

The cost of this convenience is high, literally and figuratively.

Every night in the ER I see kids who have been ill for several days and made multiple trips to urgent care before finally landing in my ER.  Often, they just paid an urgent care co-pay, only to be told by urgent care that they needed to go to the ER, and then got stuck with an ER co-pay of up to $500.  One child had been seen twice at urgent care by two different nurse practitioners, was mis-diagnosed as having “a virus” twice, only to land in my ER after running a fever of 104 for five days.  I diagnosed her with a urinary tract infection that had spread to her blood stream, a very serious and potentially fatal illness.  Her family never called their pediatrician, who could have caught and treated her infection before it became serious.   No pediatrician would have let her run such a high fever for so long without ordering further tests and following up on her condition.

Then there was a twelve-year- old I saw with an undescended testicle—a testicle that never came down to its correct position in the scrotum during infancy.   He had yearly school physicals at a convenient care clinic, and got his vaccines through a school program.  He hadn’t been to his pediatrician since he was an infant.  His mom said that the pediatrician had mentioned his “testicle problem” when he was an infant, but that she thought it would clear up on its own.  They never followed up, and the convenient care school physicals did not include a testicular exam.  Tragically, this condition results in a non-functional testicle when not treated early.

I see depression and suicide attempts, drug abuse, head injuries, and STDs—all things that primary care pediatricians screen for, try to prevent, and treat in the early stages before kids land in the ER.  I ask these parents who their primary care doctor is so that I can call him or her, and it’s the same story, “Oh she hasn’t seen her pediatrician for years, we just use urgent care.”  Often, these kids miss teen vaccines, like the meningitis vaccine and the HPV vaccine.

So what should you do when you r daughter has ear pain and a fever at 5 pm on a Thursday night?  Call your pediatrician’s exchange.  If you disagree with the recommendation of the nurses’ answer line, ask to speak with your pediatrician.  Be honest.  Tell your pediatrician that you would like to go to urgent care tonight rather than wait to be seen in the am.  Guess what—most pediatricians are working parents too, and they understand your family time crunch.  They may even send you to a specific urgent care that will fax your child’s record to them. Or, they might tell you that your child’s condition is so serious that you need to go to the ER, and you will save yourself two co-pays.  They might even call in a prescription for your child right then and there.  And if your child doesn’t get better, your pediatrician will still be there for you, with a chart that documents all you child’s care.   If your child becomes very sick, your pediatrician can pull together medical records from multiple locations and coordinate referrals to specialists.

When do you use urgent care?  Is it ever appropriate?  How do you choose when to call your pediatrician and when to just go to urgent care?  I’d love to hear your honest answers.